After sailing around the Mediterranean for two years, spending 18 days crossing the Atlantic Ocean and arriving at the Caribbean Island of St Lucia, the best way to describe how I felt was ‘shell-shocked’.
Every effort up until our arrival in St Lucia was spent on planning, preparing, organizing, and actually getting across the Atlantic Ocean. Not one moment was spent considering the climate, culture, and differences that we were about to encounter.
Although sailing around the Caribbean is not new to me, and I knew what to expect, I felt as if I entered a totally new world. Having vacationed in the Caribbean on a boat is definitely different than bringing your European based home across the pond to stay for a while.
The Caribbean is nothing like the Mediterranean.
Everything is different – the air, sea, people, food, scenery, wind, fish, and…just everything.
With such a difference I feel slightly lost yet extremely revitalized.
In the Mediterranean, I knew the layout. I understood who I was and where I was located in the world. I became accustomed to reviewing the language of the country and I knew it was up to me to be proactive when ordering something at a restaurant or finding a new location. I felt comfortable in the fact that I could name the countries and/or islands around me. I felt at home.
Now that we’re in the Caribbean I feel as if we’re in the same house yet it’s been turned upside down. Like Dorothy, in The Wizard of Oz, our house has been lifted out of Kansas and planted in a totally new world.
It’s great to go out and speak English.
For two years I’ve struggled with my Italian, Greek, Turkish, French, and Spanish. Here in St Lucia I simply speak English and I get English in return! For the first week or two, I found myself requesting things in slowly in a simple manner thinking the person I was speaking to didn’t know English well. (I’m sure many of the locals think I have issues…)
Aside from speaking English, I can visit any of the grocery stores and find products I know and recognize. I’ve been devouring cinnamon raisin bagels, American Italian sausages, Jerk Chicken, and on and on (I’ve lived in Europe for almost 20 years but being American, it’s always nice to find American food that I grew up with).
It’s currently WINTER right now and I’m enjoying sun-soaked days and perfect breezy evenings IN MY T-SHIRT.
Not once have I had to put a sweater on or add layers as the evening drew closer. It’s balmy and it’s January. During the summer in the Mediterranean, it got hot but it’s a different hot. And in the winter, in the Med is cold, damp and rainy.
Furthermore, the water here is perfect…and I mean perfect.
In the Med, I couldn’t last very long as the sea would have patches of warmth and patches of coldness. In two years of swimming and snorkeling in the Med, I can count the amount of fish I saw. In the few weeks of being in the Caribbean, I’ve already seen thousands of creatures. The water is clear, the fish are bright and colorful and the temperature is perfect.
But let me stop there – I’m not writing this to bash the Mediterranean.
Heck, nothing can beat the variety of cultures, amazing anchorages, diversity of food, and the history of Europe. Surely, I won’t be able to find something comparable in the Caribbean to the Parthenon, Olympia, Delphi, the Palace of Knossos (Crete), Pompeii, the Coliseum and on and on. And although the pizza is great here in St Lucia, there’s something far more gratifying about eating a pie in Italy.
So like I said at the beginning of this article, I’m simply shell-shocked.
I suppose, looking back, the Med became ‘normal’ to me and now that I’m in the Caribbean I’m on a new high.
Isn’t it interesting about how we, as humans, normalize things? Towards the end of our two-year stay in the Med I definitely tired of seeing ancient amphitheaters. Yes, I’m at fault for trying to hit ever historical archeological finding, but I just couldn’t help it. If you have Pompeii within your reach you’re not going to pass it by!
I have to admit that I also struggled with having to fail (over and over) at speaking a foreign language or dealing with the repercussions of buying baking powder instead of baking soda (I often couldn’t understand the packaging and purchased the wrong ingredients).
Furthermore, the Mediterranean is not a great place to actually sail.
The wind is either blowing a Force 10 (gale force) or it’s not blowing at all. When we moved locations we’d either get to our next destination completely disheveled, windblown, and seasick OR we’d have to motor for hours using up our diesel.
Hopefully, these comments don’t make me sound ungrateful. I’m certainly thankful for all of our adventures. I suppose, however, that once one sees quite a few amazing things they eventually become less amazing. And once someone lives in a particular area, after time, life becomes less spontaneous, uncertain, and dare I say, ‘exciting’.
I think I’ll have to scratch the ‘exciting’ bit because since we sold up and sailed away, my life has had more excitement than I ever experienced in my previous 39 years of life.
The moral of my story?
Sailing around the Mediterranean was amazing. I loved every moment of it. Now that we’re in the Caribbean, however, when I look back I can see that life in the Med became somewhat predictable.
In the Caribbean, everything is fresh, new, and very unpredictable!
People often ask me if I’m getting tired of cruising. In some regards, there are a variety of things that annoy me (to name a couple: provisioning for food/water, sleeping in a swell, seasickness, storms). The little day-to-day inconveniences bother me, but as a whole, there’s so much to see and do that I can’t imagine getting tired of exploring this amazing world we have.
The moral of my story is that when you’re cruising around and a location becomes ‘normalized’ you can simply go west and find a whole new world to explore again and again and again.
So…here starts yet another new chapter in my life – the exploration of the Caribbean! Woo Woo!
Need More Information About The Caribbean versus The Mediterranean?
- Check out all the places we’ve been in the Caribbean – Caribbean Sailing
- Check out the wonderful time that we spent in the Med – Mediterranean Sailing
- Also, read 25 Differences – The Caribbean or The Mediterranean
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Grandma & grandpa says
…Loved it !! Dear Kim, felt you were here telling us the story of your sailing adventures in such detail sharing your experiences, feelings, thoughts. .Your gift of writing, expression – wonderful and easy to relate to. Happy to see photos with Barb, Bryan and family enjoying the holidays together. You guys know how to celebrate and enjoy life!!!
We had Christmas eve with the Burns’ and Christmas with Steve, Jody and the kids with all the trimmings, playing games with chauffer service no less as we don’t drive after dark any longer.,
Gramps is feeling better than in many months and together taking delight in the beauty , diversity, and goodness of the Harkolas, all! Love to you, Simon and Sienna XXXXXXX.
. Hugs Grandma
Kim Brown says
Thank you for your feedback grandma! I’m so happy you had a wonderful Christmas eve and day. We’re hoping to get up to New York this summer to see you and gramps. I’ll keep you posted. Lots of love, X
Jackie Nicholls says
Happy New Year Kim, Simon and Sienna! Wow, what a journey you are having right now and what an achievement sailing across the Atlantic.
Your videos were great, I felt as though I was on the journey with you. Enjoy the Caribbean, it’s fabulous and the people are so nice.
Lots of love to Sienna who is growing up fast and clearly loving life on-board.
Keep going – I bet you don’t miss the corporate world!
St Christopher will always keep you safe (hope you’ve still got it!)
Much love as always
Kim Brown says
Hey Jackie! Happy New Year to you guys too! Of course I still have St Christopher with me – he sleeps above my head 🙂 Big love, X
Stephanie Gardiner says
I think that’s true about most places — after time, things become more and more predictable. I’m curious about the winds in the Med (a possibility for future cruising for us). You wrote the wind is always blowing a gale or not at all but you called it a Force 10 (which isn’t a gale, but a storm). I’m guessing you meant gale, which is 35 to 40 knots (storm is 48 to 55 knots). Keeping in mind that every season is different, did you see a lot of gales during the summer months or was that mainly in the winter?
Kim Brown says
Hey Stephanie! We found the wind in the Med during the spring, summer and fall to be very unpredictable and either nothing at all or full blast. All of our world sailor friends often complained about the actual sailing conditions of the Med. Of course we had a few good sails but more times than not we were either motoring or had reefs in. I thought ‘Gale Force’ was a 10 or over so sorry for being wrong on that. We saw 10 often and it wasn’t very nice. That being said, just because the sailing conditions aren’t great I wouldn’t give the Med a miss. Where it lacks on sailing conditions it makes up for it with culture, diversity, food, history, great people, and on and on…
Gaston says
I just start reading you. Your text is well written. This kind of blog is often written by men, more technical. In your case you give emotions to your text, it is excellent.
I also have some recipes for you, ……. next time ….
Kim Brown says
Thank you for the feedback Gaston – I look forward to the recipes!